Tuesday, May 08, 2018

Me Too?

there was one stolen kiss that I always
thought of sweetly until this year
when I began to worry about my memory and 
was she really smiling as she ducked under my arm 
and ran away? when I leaned in
did she lean in too?
or am I another man recasting his past?
what did that moment mean to her
if it meant anything at all?

this is not the sort of thing you ask on Facebook
a blue-sky message 
starting with you may not remember 
and ending with was I the villain?
this is (not?) the sort of thing you ask

Saturday, January 20, 2018

I want to turn your stories upside down 
and leave my name on them in masking tape 
like a family vase in a dying woman's house 
so I can have them when you're gone.

Tuesday, December 19, 2017

Another revision

Woke up thinking of grandfather's funeral
where one by one my cousins stood
and told of a warm funny man and I sat
in a pew holding my father's hand
because I never saw that man
until the last few years
when his brain fell apart
and the walls came down
and he forgot who he was to me.

Tuesday, February 16, 2016

New version of this:

I want to show her
the wood planed smooth. She wants to
play with the shavings.

Monday, January 19, 2015

Watching southbound birds
through a net of power lines
and traffic signals

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Keeping the family organized

At the moment, we need to keep straight the schedules of two working parents, two kids (at two different schools), and two grandparents just up the street, one of whom is only semi-retired and travels a lot as a consultant.  How do we keep it all straight? The short answer is "just barely". The longer answer is Google Calendars.  At the moment, I have five calendars synced to our various devices and computers.  Some, like my work calendar, are only on my devices, but several of the calendars are relevant enough to all of us that we needed a way to display them at home, since our lives are only going to get more complicated, not less.

I briefly considered using paper.  I recently started using a recipe box (with actual paper recipe cards) again, and find it superior to any electronic interface I've used.  Unfortunately, our schedules change frequently enough that I would have to add 'print off calendar page' as a daily to-do, and that wasn't an appealing option.

I have long wished someone would invent a device that would solve this problem.  I've had a couple of ideas over the years of what that might look like.  Maybe a digital photo frame that could also connect to Google Calendars?  How about a home phone with wifi and a touch screen? I can think of all kinds of uses for something like that!  Several companies came close to what I wanted (Chumby, for example) only to fold, get acquired, or otherwise fail to perfectly execute my dream device.

At some point, I started eyeing our iPad 1. Christie won it at a trade show back when it was the hot device of the moment, and it served us well for many years.  Now, however, it's running iOS 5.0.1 in an iOS 8.0.2 world. Even relatively simple apps like Netflix drag and crash enough to make it more frustrating than fun.I mounted it over our phone charging station with a few Command hooks, then started looking for an app that would display a calendar, a clock, and a weather forecast.

I never found one that ran under iOS 5 that I was happy with, but even the ones I didn't like were a step in the right direction.  I finally ended up just creating a web page that uses iframe tags to embed the data I wanted into a table that laid it out the way I wanted:
The clock is from http://free.timeanddate.com, the forecast is from http://forecast.io, and the calendars are coming via http://www.google.com/calendar.

I'm using Chrome for iOS to get the minimalist look I wanted, and the embed are all sized so that it fits just so.  Here's the code (with some redactions):

<iframe frameborder="0" height="230" src="http://free.timeanddate.com/clock/i4ce2mc9/n109/fs88/ftb/ts1" width="350"></iframe>
<iframe frameborder="0" height="230" id="forecast_embed" src="https://forecast.io/embed/#lat=11.11&lon=-11.11&name=Columbia, MO" target="_blank" type="text/html" width="624"> </iframe>
<td colspan="2">
<iframe frameborder="0" height="480" scrolling="no" src="https://www.google.com/calendar/embed?title=My%20Calendars&showTitle=0&showPrint=0&showTabs=0&showTz=0&height=400&wkst=1&bgcolor=%23cccccc&src=youremail%40gmail.com&color=%232952A3&src=yourgroup.calendar.google.com&ctz=America%2FChicago" style="border: solid 1px #777;" width="100%"></iframe>
<script id="jsbin-javascript">
if (/mobile/i.test(navigator.userAgent) && !window.location.hash) { window.onload = function () {
  window.scrollTo(0, 1);
}; }


You'll have to put in your own latitude and longitude for the forecast, and embed your own calendar (instructions here). The meta tag at the top reloads the page every ten minutes to keep the weather forecast fresh, and the javascript at the bottom is a bit of trickery to force Chrome to hide the navbar when that reload happens.

Set autolock on the iPad to "never", and you've got yourself a family calendar that always stays current.

Thursday, May 08, 2014

The world's best lemonade

is adapted from a Cook's Illustrated recipe:

10–12 medium lemons , scrubbed well, halved pole to pole, all halves sliced thin
1 1/4 cups granulated sugar
pinch table salt (optional)
5 cups water (cold)

Mash lemons and sugar (and salt, if using) in large, deep bowl or saucepan with potato masher or wooden spoon until lemon slices give up their juice, sugar is dissolved, and juice is thickened to syrup consistency, about 4 minutes. Pour half the lemon slices and syrup through large sieve over bowl or saucepan; press on solids with masher or back of wooden spoon to release as much liquid as possible, and rinse with some of the cold water.. Discard solids; transfer liquid to serving pitcher. Repeat process with remaining lemon slices. Stir in remaining water until blended. Chill well and stir to blend before serving, over ice if desired.

Monday, November 11, 2013

I didn't want to get up when I heard you calling me,
your small voice across the five a.m. house that I'm sure
I could have slept through if there wasn't something
in the way you said 'daddy, come'. You'd woken up cold and

grabbed on to me as if in a flood, and I covered you up and
gave your own heat back to you one moment at a time until
it was time, and I lay you back to bed and went to make
coffee in the growing light from the kitchen window sky.

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

"I do not believe in the romance of the struggle. I believe in the joy of winning."
-Rachel Maddow

Sunday, March 31, 2013

Deck lessons #5 - Steps

If possible, change the orientation of the boards to give a visual reminder of the change in level.