Friday, October 01, 2004

Miki at Theory of the Daily has a nice post up on marriage and eroticism. The whole thing is worth a read, but the big piece I took away is that it's not so much that libido decreases as a relationship ages as it is that libido changes. So, we should aspire to a more holistic eroticism that is incorporated thoroughly into our domestic lives, rather than the crazy gymnastic sex we might have enjoyed when we were dating.

I'm not saying there's no more porno-movie sex after marriage, though. Just that a little grab-ass in the kitchen helps keep the home fires burning until you've got the time and energy for a real bonfire.

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